15 Great Date Tips
How do all of these people find success in love online? We want you to be safe and to fully enjoy all of the site’s features, so we have prepared some tips and tricks to help you succeed with ease.
1. Turn your dating profile into a magnet
A great profile is open, honest, specific, and uniquely yours. Talk about your interests, the kind of connection you’re looking for, and your personality. Add recent photos that represent who you are today, not who you were five years ago. Your profile should not be a résumé — let your charm show. Keep it light, flirty, but clear.
2. It’s all about your main profile picture
Use a high-quality headshot with good lighting taken within the last 6 months. Avoid group photos, sunglasses, or filters. Show off your real smile — confidence is more attractive than perfection. Add a few lifestyle pictures too, but keep the focus on you.
3. The power of giving
Gifts, messages, and compliments — even digital ones — go a long way. Send thoughtful messages. Don’t copy-paste. If the site offers gifts or flirts, use them to stand out. Engagement drives results.
4. Stay connected wherever you go
Use the mobile version or app (if available) so you never miss a new message or flirt. Active users get noticed first. Dating doesn’t stop when you leave your desk.
5. Kick off the match talking
Say more than “hey.” Ask something specific from their profile, or offer a playful tease. The more personal and direct your opener, the more likely you’ll get a reply.
6. Share experiences and real dating tips
Our dating forums are packed with ideas, laughs, and real stories. Don’t date alone — join the conversation and meet like-minded people who know the game.
7. Always trust your gut
If someone makes you uncomfortable or behaves oddly, block them and report it. Real interest never comes with pressure. If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.
8. Defend yourself by reporting suspicious behavior
See something weird? Report it. This helps keep the site clean and safe for everyone. Use the report button or contact the moderators directly.
9. Trust and be trusted
Some members verify their identity. If that matters to you, look for verification badges. We may use phone, email, or even photo confirmation to help users show they’re real.
10. Behave cautiously in chat
Stay playful but guarded until you’re sure. Don’t rush to share personal details. If someone’s acting pushy or skipping small talk, it’s a warning sign.
11. Share photos on a case-by-case basis
Be selective. Use private sharing options if available. Keep explicit photos off your public profile — they can attract the wrong kind of attention. Show what you’re comfortable with.
12. Keep things private
Your name, email, phone, social handles — protect them. Use in-site chat, not personal messengers, until you’ve built trust. Your safety comes first.
13. Beware of swindlers
Never send money, no matter how convincing someone sounds. Scammers will invent stories. Stay sharp. Love doesn’t ask for a wire transfer.
14. Be sure to ask for a photo
If things are going well and you haven’t seen each other’s face — ask! No verified image? No meeting.
15. Meet somewhere safe
Public places, daytime meetups, and safe exits. Don’t get drunk or go somewhere you can’t leave. If anything feels off, trust yourself and leave. Safety is sexy.